Who is expected to calm down first?

Assalam Alaikum brothers and sisters of nisaus sunnah. Lets analise this question critically and respond with reasons please. If both
Husband and wife are angry.. Who is expected to calm down first in other to restore peace in the house

Waalaikum salam warahmatullahi. I think the wife should calm down and appologise first, if only because she is under his control. After which dey discuss the issue in an understanding manner. So the wife should try and throw some happiness in his dear mind. She will be rewarded inshaallah. The husband as a man with strong mind and leader of the house should show capacity and accept the appology and the family will continue to be a peacefull one..